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137. Women Age 50 Can Be Sexy

20 Jan

French, prize-winning novelist and film-director Yann Moix (age 50) has enraged some women because he finds age 50 women sexually unattractive. Much has been written by men and women regarding this important issue. I am well over 50, and I am going to express my views on this subject. And I apologize to others that have already written similar things. And note that much of what applies to women also applies to men.

The first thing I want to assert is that a woman at 50 can have wonderful things (including sex) to offer a man. Briefly, and obviously, such a woman who is loving can provide numerous benefits for a man. But I am going to deal first, with the sexual part, since it seems to be of greatest interest.

A woman aged 50 can be a wonderful sexual partner if she and her man are truly in love, and even if they only like each other a lot.  Sometimes, sexual interest is also based upon the health and weight of the other. Knowing how to please sexually is really important. Some lack of physical attractiveness is often made up for with good use of hands and lips. Body odor or lack of odor is very important. Ask your partner what is best in the area of olfaction: certain perfume or just really clean. A woman or a man can make up for diminished physical attractiveness by good use of the right caresses. I could go into detail, but I will just say that the most sensitive area for men and women is the same, and is a few inches south of the navel. When you are doing this, start gently and see how your partner reacts, and if you are really confused you need to ask him/her for instructions.

Regarding other aspects of love at an older age I have the following to say. A lot of love depends on supportiveness and reliability.  For example, if your partner is foolishly spending a lot money then you might find him/her to be unattractive. Being supportive and minimally critical is really vital. Enjoying things, together, of common interest enhances attractiveness. If a man is with a woman who has all the characteristics discussed above, it is very likely that he will enjoy sex with her. I would also suggest that for those who are for any reason not capable of actual sex, then massaging can be a great substitute.

Getting back to Mr. Yann Moix, it is true that the bodies of young women are sexually more attractive, and there are biological and evolutionary reasons for this. But I think that if you can find an intelligent, healthy, kind, and loving woman of about 50 and normal weight, that you could really enjoy sex with her.  (In my experience, such women exist, but are hard to find.)  And for women, the enjoyment of sex with an older man is similar, but other factors play a role.  Women often find that a man who is “successful,” is more attractive. Also note that some older women enjoy sex with young men, and might sympathize with Yann Moix.